Believe me, I can tell you a wind of change is going to blow across Nigeria’s tertiary institutions all thanks to Kiki Mordi and BBC! For years, it’s baffled me to no end how men who may have daughters would mete out so much cruelty on their female students by insisting they engage in sexual intercourse with them or fail their courses! How evil! How brutish!
Many of these evil men have gone ahead to fail uncompromising female students and ensure they spend some extra time in the university. As a result of this, many of these girls lost focus and got their destinies redirected by men who were supposed to tutor them in life! And to think there are girls of easy-virtue who are willing to fling themselves at these beasts! How heartless could anyone be?
Can you now imagine a pastor who has been leading a congregation, revered and highly-sought after by his church members for spiritual succour becoming the most celebrated lecher in Nigeria’s Ivory towers? WOW! JESUS IS LORD! AND I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE HIS JUDGEMENT!
You see, Nigerian followership is too easy on the leadership as expressed through the reaction of Nigerians to the governance of the country over time. The masses just accept whatever comes their way even when it’s detrimental to their psycho-social and physical well-being. The average Nigerian grows with a slave-mentality and this is passed down from one generation to the other. Otherwise, why would some parents tell their daughters not to resist sexual harassing lecturers firmly but gently persuade them to become their guardian instead? It just doesn’t work that way. How can someone brazenly assault your decency and you just accept it because you are pretty anyway and expect that most men would drool over you and because every female you know is being sexually harassed and no one is crying out for justice? Absurd!
As far as every female’s sexuality is concerned, we are not meant to be under the whims and caprices of men in spite of our male-dominated society. The only man we are expected to submit to according to the divine order is our husband who is commanded to love his wife as Christ loved the church.
Ephesians 5:25. It is a most fatal blow on the soul and destiny of any female to be forced into sexual activities by a total stranger be it a lecturer or any man in position of authority over them. How sad!
As far back as 30 years ago, there’s been a general fear about crying out for justice because some lecturers in a good number of Nigerian Universities work like a confraternity and have got each other’s back. Most girls don’t want to risk being shoved from frying pan to fire and would rather sleep with the lecturer or end up being failed in their courses and probably end up with an extra year or two. While some who in the first place had resolved they were going to the higher Institution to have fun would fling themselves at these lecturers and get undeserving grades. And in fact an inducement or luring by a female student of a male lecturer into making sexual advances and an attempt by a lady to willingly give herself away as a consideration for a favourable examination result, will not amount to sexual harassment. To think millions of women have passed through this hell called sexual harassment without crying out is very unfair and inhuman. Thank God, a likely end has come to this madness!
Can you imagine a pervert defiling your beautiful daughter- your future and turning her into a sex slave? It’s likely to happen without you ever getting to find out if you don’t start encouraging her to develop the basic life skills- especially her self-awareness and assertiveness, instill Godly principles in her, fill her brain with how wonderful and unique she is and how important it is for her to be morally-upright to fulfill her glorious destiny. If you are still thinking it’s normal for every female to succumb to the pressures of a man to get what she wants and refuse to prepare your daughter adequately, you may be jeopardising your future because your economical survival may be dependent on the super job her intelligence may avail her in future.
But what happens when such intelligence and bright prospects have been scuttled at the embryo level? A word is enough for the wise! Besides, you owe your daughter all the protection in the world! There’s so much more to come on this!
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Chastity does not belong to the past. It saves you a lot of trouble, preserves your beautiful destiny and stands you out from the crowd. You are better off not engaging in pre-marital and extra-marital sex. Stay chaste!
To be continued
By Temilolu Okeowo